tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4626425471574451579.post6544387267513631320..comments2023-06-15T05:05:32.495-06:00Comments on Random Ramblings: Self-EsteemAmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10130442147509407544noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4626425471574451579.post-5885291830372834112009-10-19T21:16:49.985-06:002009-10-19T21:16:49.985-06:00I wish I had the secret. The closest I've com...I wish I had the secret. The closest I've come is 'fake it till you make it'. Not being the most attractive woman, I've never had men falling all over me. However, once I got out of school and saw how many loser guys are out there I realized I was a good catch. As soon as *I* figured it out, it seems the guys did too- even if most of them were still losers!<br /><br />I think it's something that ebs and flows. I gave up a great career to be home with my kids. I know I'm lucky to have had the chance but as I look at getting back into the workforce now, I feel so worthless. I'm a freakin' Walmart Greeter now! My skills are rusty and limited. I'm not up with the latest and greatest. <br /><br />We can feel inadequate in some areas of our lives while still being perfectly accomplished in others. They can co-exist. It's not an all or nothing kind of thing.Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15300459671364768442noreply@blogger.com